Conversation gathering
Explore a shared question through a facilitated conversation. Participants take turns speaking and listening before moving into an open exchange of ideas.
1. Plan your gathering
Choose the format first, then set the date, capacity and duration around what it needs. The examples below are sources of practical experience, not requirements for your gathering.
2. Prepare to host
Confirm the venue’s permission, usable layout, sound conditions, access arrangements and setup/clearing window. Set participant capacity from the activity and available leadership, then count all hosts and helpers within the room limit.
Prepare the materials and rehearse the parts you will lead. Confirm [materials supplied], [what participants bring] and [host/helper responsibilities] before publishing. Use original or properly authorized material. For minors, arrange the host organization’s safeguarding and guardian requirements.
Identity and materials: Use an independently named discussion circle with original prompts and facilitation text. Do not imply it is an official Conversation Café or copy/adapt their manual under an assumed license.
For the named Conversation Café method, read its official process/agreements and host guidance. The host page instructs hosts to read the manual, set place/time and notify the organization for listing. Ask the current steward about name, logo and reproduction/adaptation permission before branding or republishing materials.
Venue request
3. Create your Eventbrite listing
Open a new event
Event title
Conversation gathering: one question, many perspectivesShort summary
Explore an open question through listening, speaking and different perspectives.Date, time and location
Event description
Our starting question is [question]. The host will explain [speaking/listening process]. This is a conversation for understanding, not a debate, sales pitch or decision-making meeting. Listening and passing are welcome. When: [day, date, start–end time and time zone] Where: [confirmed venue, address, room and host location] Audience: [age range, participation requirements and any guardian arrangements] Materials: [what is provided and what to bring] Cost: [total price including fees and any required purchase] Booking: [RSVP link, capacity/waitlist and cancellation arrangements] Access: [confirmed seating, route and activity-specific communication/sensory arrangements] Host and questions: [name/contact]Tickets and registration
Ticket name
General admissionFinal check
4. Invite people
Announce your gathering
A welcoming invitation
A closer look
5. Host the gathering
- Explain the purpose, topic and listening agreements.
- Invite each person to offer an opening thought or pass before opening wider conversation.
- Ask clarifying questions rather than steering toward your own answer.
- If discussion becomes dominated or heated, return to the agreed turn-taking process and restate the purpose.
- Close with a brief reflection opportunity rather than forced consensus.
At the close, thank participants and clear the space as agreed. Do not add anyone to a mailing list or share their contact details without their choice.
Sources and practical references
- Jim Rough, Port Townsend Conversation Café , Host’s dated topic record spans 2002–2005, including participant-chosen topics and topical questions; it does not document each session length.
- Eugene Boeldak, Dialogue Café Utrecht , Host records themed and open-topic meetings from 2008–2013, including town-hall and other facilitation formats.
- Conversation Café official process
how connection develops